tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2664189135896554526.post3763259809573906243..comments2023-07-28T03:06:34.342-07:00Comments on my thorn in the flesh: Leave me the hell alone!JXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05401086120597891551noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2664189135896554526.post-16974000791483214432008-11-22T19:52:00.000-08:002008-11-22T19:52:00.000-08:00Then that is precisely what you need to tell them....Then that is precisely what you need to tell them. I had similar experiences, and finally made it clear that if others wished to have engagements in which someone they thought I should meet was present, fine! But no set-ups; no double dates. If I wanted that to happen, I'd let them know. For now, God's plan for you is bachelorhood, and that's the truth. <BR/><BR/>If they cannot understand that, then their efforts have become about themselves, and not you. If that makes them wonder about your sexuality, then what is that to you? You can't do one thing about that, even if you were out (But I suspect, that like I did, you long for the resolution that transparency brings.).KJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15701224049914946896noreply@blogger.com